Tag Archives: BLACK GIRL MAGIC

Solange- Don’t Touch My Hair

I am in love-love-love with Solange’s new song Don’t touch my hair. If it’s not 4 minutes and 24 seconds of pure truth, then I don’t know what is. Take a listen and if you’re completely whisked away to a field of enchantment floating on a cotton cloud (like I was), then you should check out her full album A Seat At The Table. 

P.S.A: Don’t come here and start comparing Solange to Beyonce. These are two extremely talented women in two completely separate lanes.

#BlackGirlMagic

If you’ve been following social media lately you might have come across a hashtag called #BlackGirlMagic. Black girl magic is a self-love campaign targeted towards not only teaching young Black girls to love their unique qualities, it’s also trying to restructure the image of Black women in the media and our society. I’m a young Black woman and I can testify to how hard it’s been growing up and seeing a misrepresentation of yourself portrayed on tv. I have a little sister and I don’t want those stereotypes and opinions to misguide or influence her and how she views herself. So I 100% full heartedly support and believe in this campaign. That being said, these next couple of weeks I’ll be posting videos, audios, pictures, quotes and articles on Black women that definitely got the magic in them.

Common Black Girl Tag

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The Black girl tag is something I’ve been wanting to do for the longest time. For those of you not familiar with the Black Girl tag, it’s a series of questions on common Black girl stereotypes. I’m guessing it’s supposed to measure my “Blackness”, but any girl of any race can say yes to a number of these questions. Still I guess it’s a fun quiz to take so why not.

I did tweak some of the questions because they sounded similar or because I found them utterly ridiculous?

#BLACK GIRL TAG

  1. Have you ever been told you sound like a white girl?

All the time in high school and junior high. I guess speaking proper English is seen as speaking white nowadays.

Do you drink Starbucks?

No, I hate everything about coffee the smell, the taste, the color.

  1. Do people ever say you act ghetto?

Actually, the opposite I’ve been told on more than one occasion that I act like a white girl.

  1. Can you dance?

It depends on if you’re talking about booty shaking or choreographed numbers. I would still say yes to both.

  1. Do you eat soul food?

Yes, and I love it, not the 1000’s of calories but they’re all well worth it.

  1. Do you go to public, private or charter school?

I go to the University of Arizona which is a public university. I also went to public school for part of elementary, middle and high school.

  1. How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?

30 minutes to 1 hour depending on how nice I want to look. I’ve mastered the art of speed prepping.

  1. Do you ever take selfies?

No, I find myself to be very non-photogenic so I barely take pictures that I like and worth posting.

  1. Do you like fried chicken?

I love fried chicken sooo good!

  1. Have you ever watched the movie mean girls?

Yes, I have and I can say I identify myself the most with Cady? Just a lost girl trying to find where I fit in.

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  1. What is your ethnicity?

I’m African/African American but I identify myself as African.

  1. Do you always try to look good?

Try yes succeed no.

  1. Have you ever seen the movie The Colored Purple?

Yup and it’s one of Whoopi Goldberg’s best work.

  1. What are your average grades in School?

A’s and B’s the occasional C’s mostly in Math and Science.

  1. Do you enjoy doing this tag?

It’s a little bit stereotypical but it’s not that bad.

  1. Black gel or Jam?

Jam holds like glue

  1. Does your name have “isha” in it?

Not even close my names Nathel. Spelled like Nathel but pronounce like Natel.

  1. Do you have a lot of friends?

I have a lot of acquaintances. I try to keep my circle tight.

  1. Do you roll your neck/and or eyes?

Nope

  1. Do you often have an attitude?

Can’t deny it I do

  1. Do you listen to Taylor Swift?

Hell yeah in the start of her career she inspired me so much that I wanted to be a country singer.

  1. Have you ever dated a white guy?

I’ve never dated anyone. (wink wink)

  1. Do you wear weave and if so how often?

I’ve been wearing weave for as long as I can remember. I started wearing my natural hair more once I went natural. So now I split it up 50/50.

  1. Are you light skin or dark skin?

In the middle, I get lighter in the winter and darker in the summer.

  1. Are you loud or quiet?

Extremely shy when I first meet people but then after those 2 minutes roll by you can’t get me to shut up.

  1. Do you prefer the beads or rope twist?

No idea what you’re talking about right now.

  1. Just For Me or Shea Moisture?

Just For Me when I was younger but Shea Moisture now especially now that I’m natural.

  1. What’s the most annoying question you get asked?

The most annoying question I get asked is the one I ask myself. Does he like Black girls?

  1. Are you ratchet?

Not in the slightest bit.

  1. Has your weave ever fallen out?

No, but funny story about that. My friends and I were at a party there were so many people you could barely move. Next thing you know some guy puts on his flashlight and there’s a track on the floor. I thought it was mine because the curl kind of matched my pattern. So I was soo embarrassed!!! On my way out I grabbed it and realised that it wasn’t mine. I keep my hair in a bun now when I go out.

  1. Do you pat your head or do the assisted scratch?

Scratch,

TIP: pencils and pens work great!!

  1. Who is your favorite Black couple?

The President and First lady of the United States of America. Barack and Michelle Obama

  1. What black women do you look up to?

Too many to count but every Black woman that I come encounter with has inspired me in some way shape or form.

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  1. What’s your favorite thing about being a Black woman?

My skin, which is funny because that’s what gets us the most hate. I love my coco skin color but not only that I love the essence and strength of Black women.

  1. Do you like weave?

It’s great for protectives styles and switching it up.

  1. Do you like chicken and watermelon?

Yes but I’ve never had them together.

  1. Do you have any White friends?

Why yes I do I also have Black friends, Asian friends, Native American friends, Latino friends and so on.

  1. Do you have natural hair?

Yes, transitioned two summers ago.

  1. Do you have a booty?

I guess so but it could be bigger. I’m working on it.

  1. Do you know how to twerk?

Ehh the ability comes and goes.

Okay, guys, that’s if you enjoyed reading this tag I”d encourage you to try it out for yourself. Leave a comment when you’ve made one and I’ll go give it a read.

Throughout I’ve been showcasing photos of art that I find extremely unique. The artist name is Sara Golish and she creates beautiful moondust paintings.

If you enjoyed the pieces and want to see more click here  to view her Instagram page. Or here to go straight to her website.

Sincerely,

Nathel Kayy